Opening Comments

Happy New Year!  There is always hope and delight at the beginning of something new. Be it a new year, a new love, a new job, or a new life.

Sometimes these things are your choice, sometimes choices are made by others prompting a catalyst for the new things in your life.  It is key to focus on the excitement and joy that comes with newness.  If you made resolutions for this year and have already not kept them, do not get down on yourself or discouraged.  One of my favorite sayings is "Every day is a blank page that is given to you.  What you write on that page determines the threads of the story of your life.  Make sure the things you write are good ones."

So take your blank slate that you are given each day and start anew.  A journey of 1000 miles starts with -only- a single step.  Decide where you are going, what you will achieve and get started. If necessary, begin again and again and again, until it sticks!  Much love and luck in all of your endeavors.

With Blessings, Dale and Halley
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Featured Article

The Canvas of Your Life
by Dale Masker

If you ask an artist, “what is the most intimidating thing in your World?” Most will answer you, "A Blank Canvas".  You would think it would be some statement about selling their art, or acceptance of their art, or fear of criticism, but it is the blank canvas that intimidates them the most.  A blank canvas in your life can be the same way.  It can be exciting or intimidating.  It is all in how you view it.

A dear friend of mine had some challenges enter their life that required a complete reworking of every aspect of their life.  The game plan was blown.  Everything that had seemed settled, taken care of and on track was derailed.  This individual reeled from the shock of the suddenness of the cataclysmic event that caused this dramatic derailing of every aspect of their life.  It took some time, but they eventually came to realize that they had been given a tremendous gift . . The ability to face a blank canvas and make a new picture. 

Fortunately the event was not health related directly and so they were physically able to create a new picture.  They are still painting the new picture of their life, and the process has not been without it's challenges but their new picture will be a masterpiece with a depth and quality that would not be there if they had not walked their path through the events as they occurred. 

The new picture will be completely different from the originally envisioned one, but it will lead to greater wealth and happiness than this individual would have had if they had stayed with the old picture.

In my own life, I have suddenly had the opportunity to make a new picture.  My 21 1/2 year career as a financial advisor was abruptly derailed by circumstances beyond my control.  Due to the work I had done with OurBestIdea.com and my own determination, after recovering from the shock it was easy to see that the Universe had sent me a very clear cut message.  But, what to do with the rest of my life? Obviously my work with OurBestIdea.com was going to continue, but there are demands that need to be met.  Thusly, I decided to return to my original career choice, accounting.

Partnering with a dear friend I have known for over 25 years for that venture, and Artistry Tax & Accounting was born.  Wow, what a neat new start for this canvas in the collection.

Take a moment and look at the canvas of your life.  It is most certainly not blank by this time of your life.  There are smudges from sorrow and pain left from the past here, and masterful brushstrokes there, placed with great deliberation and care.  There are splashes of colors from fear and inspiration and achievement and joy.

Do you like all areas of the picture?  Probably not all of them, but you really like some of the places in the painting.  So in your mind envision a blank canvas.  If you had the opportunity to start afresh, to paint a new picture, what would it look like?  This is the main element in designing a life you love to live. 

• To be able to see it! 
I mean really, really see it, in full detail, in living color; like a snapshot of where you want to be.  This is the key element in manifesting the desired outcome from all your actions. 

Call to your consciousness this New Year!  Plan your new painting in the series of canvases that make up your life and use the information on OurBestIdea.com to help you design your new masterpiece.
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New & Exciting

There are so many new, exciting things going on at OurBestIdea.com!  Where to start? 

We have a NEW physical space to work in; our new offices are located at
20283 State Road 7, Suite 213, Boca Raton, FL 33498.
Our new Phone is: 561-487-3646

In this Blessed Space, every Thursday night, we are sharing with you and yours, Healing Circles.  The Healing Circles are a way to commune with your higher power, recharge, de-stress and redirect healing and growth energies into your life. 

If you live locally or are visiting the South Florida area, we invite you to attend.  Our Circle begins at 7:30 pm, and the more you attend, the more benefit you receive.  Please join us if you are able, we would love to have you!

Artistry Tax and Accounting came into being, for all of your accounting and Tax filing needs.  Please Contact Dale at: 561-487-3676.  Ask about your OurBestIdea.com discount!

Halley Elise is hosting a new radio show, commencing the first week in February on HealthyLife.net.
The show’s name: Conscious  S  e  x  with  Halley 
Be sure to tune in with your computer or Palm Pilot, on February 3rd at 3PM Eastern Time (Noon PST).  Halley’s guest is Dr. Erica Goodstone, a well known S  e  x  Therapist.

Since Conscious  S  e  x  has a popular topic, we expect the program will attract a wide listener base.  After the initial couple of broadcasts, calling in will be made available to you. 

In the meantime . . . listen in and formulate some questions, then send them to: Halley@Ourbestidea.com.  Your question might make it onto the radio!

If you have a business, product or service that is in line with Conscious S  e  x
and you are interested in advertising, or if you know of someone who would make a great guest. . . please send a note to Halley @ OurBestIdea.com.
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Upcoming Events

Sat. January 23, 2005: Beginning 10AM
LifeWorks Intuitive Arts Fair
3200 North Federal Highway, Boca Raton, FL  33431,  561-391-9280
 
Come early and set your appointment for a Reading with Halley Elise, visit with the other wonderful practitioners and explore many holistic alternatives.

*Free Lectures*
11:00  Linda Kanin - Higher Love Relationships
12:00  Halley Elise - Connecting to Your Power Source
1:00   Vincent Parmentola- Mindful Awareness
2:00   Marilyn and Carolyn.. The Twins/ The Art of Choice-Making
3:00   Ed Spina -  Beyond Beliefs.... A Mystic's Perspective
4:00   Cary Bayer - Prosperity Aerobics: Worry about Money No More
and enjoy Craig's Gourmet Food –delicious-

 

Sat. February 12 - Sun. March 13, 2005: 10AM -Sunset, 5 weekends
Florida Renaissance Festival, Quiet Waters Park,
401 South Powerline Road, Deerfield Beach, Florida 954-360-1315

OurBestIdea.Com will feature our one of a kind CHAKRA JEWELRY at the Mysteries by Halley Elise booth.  Come say introduce yourself and come get your Psychic Reading.
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Prosperity

Keeping more of Your Money for You is a form of prosperity. 

Make sure you have funded your retirement plans to their fullest extent.  You have until April 15 to make your IRA contribution for this year; the contribution and catch up limits are higher this year.  Use your deductions, put away as much as you can for yourself. 

Saving money on your mortgage can also enhance your prosperity, check out many different ways to save money, to save for retirement and or save for your children’s college education. . . Dale can fill in the blanks for you.

For suggestions on where, what, how and when contact Dale@OurBestIdea.com for guidance.
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Prosperous Affirmations

• Money now flows abundantly to me and I have enough to share.

• I now discard bad money habits that do not serve me and replace them with good money habits that do.

• I now make saving money a priority in my life.

• I will use credit sparingly and wisely.

• I give regularly to specific charitable organizations and continue the flow of prosperity through money and love.

• I Now know that fear has relinquished all power over me and money and I love each other.

• I allow the positive flow of money in my life.
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Harmony

The Power of Forgiveness.

Much has been written lately about the act of forgiveness. Forgiving someone can bring indescribable peace into your world.  But it can be one of the most difficult things to do.  Especially if you have carried a grudge against someone for a very long time.  It becomes part of your second nature to feel the bad feelings; the old hate, the anger and hurt all over again.  Reliving it and replaying it in your mind.  That activity runs in your subconscious like a virus scanner runs in the back of your computer. 

It may become so natural that after a while you do not notice the little negative place in your psyche. You visit it in your conscious mind only when another event hits the trigger buttons from the old event and it all comes flooding back.  If your boss calls you on a mistake, it can cause you to have a subconscious flashback to a similar incident from your childhood when a teacher did the same thing, or a parent.  It will get added to the subconscious files that create a belief that creates an action to validate the belief.

When you forgive the person in the original act, you begin releasing the emotions surrounding the event.  When the emotions are released the act of forgiveness can free you as well.

Frequently the perpetrator of the original event will have no idea that their actions caused any harm.  Confronting them can be useless; they will not understand what you are so upset about.

The act of forgiveness is for you, not them. They usually do not live in the chains that you place upon yourself when you carry the negative emotions associated with the event.  Forgiveness will release the lock on the chains and begin to free you.  Sometimes it will take every scrap of strength in your soul to impart the forgiveness but it will be the most freeing act for yourself that you can take. 

Take a look into your world and see who you can begin to forgive today.  Look for more information on OurBestIdea.com on this subject coming soon.
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Health

Muscle Memory

Your body remembers every event that has ever occurred in your life. 

Negative emotions associated with events get stored in your body, and can create illness associated with the location of the stored memory.  Have you ever noticed that you have a sore spot that does not seem to stop aching?  It can be related to the cellular memories.  Releasing the emotions surrounding the event can help you begin to heal.  Hypnosis is one way in which you can help yourself in addressing these issues.  If you have questions regarding Hypnosis, please get in touch with Halley.

An associate of ours Gwen Bonnell has mastered a process whereby you can use acupressure points (meridians) and tapping to improve your quality of life.  One of her technologies is known as Chakrativity, a methodology for using a specific technique to release your inner creativity.  Your creative part of your mind is connected with the ability to heal.  Check out our Chakra page on OurBestIdea.com for more detailed information and the opportunity to buy and download the process directly.
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Chuckle for the Day

A distraught senior citizen phoned her doctor's office.  "Is it true?"
She wanted to know, "that the medication you prescribed has to be taken for the rest of my life?"

"Yes, I am afraid so," the doctor told her.

There was a moment of silence before the senior lady replied, "I'm wondering, then, just how serious my condition is because this prescription is marked NO REFILLS."
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Awareness

Enhancing your awareness is a process.  It is something you do a little at a time, day by day.  Keeping your awareness up is a constant experiment, especially when life keeps putting challenges in your way.  Try this, this month... when you first wake up; take a moment to notice the little things, like how the sheets feel against your skin, the sensation your breath creates as you take your first deep cleansing breath of the day.  Or how the water feels against your skin as you begin to take your shower, or shave.  This is where your awareness begins, in the ordinary things of your life. 

Find moments during the day to practice the little things that beef up your awareness.  Notice momentary pleasures that come your way and how you respond to them.  Your awareness will connect you more fully to your life and your surroundings.
 
Being engaged and aware adds to your life, bringing you that much closer to your dreams and fuels you to achieve your best on a daily basis.
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Products to Help You Flourish and Thrive

The How-To guides from OurBestIdea.com are now available as hard copies as well as downloads, and they are still low priced.  We are in the process of taking photos to share with you OurBestIdea.com Angel Pins, Attraction Stones and other new items.  They will be up on the site very soon.

If you attended The Expo of Heart, you were sure to see all of our wonderful Prosperity, Health, Harmony and Awareness products.  Many of our selections are hand-made and blessed, so our quantities are limited.  Be sure to check the site often and don’t delay if you love something.

The hard copy of the Special Report on Self Publishing your own book is available for the low price of $19.95 plus shipping from the webshop.
 
The sale on the Sexual Meditation tape is coming to an end.  If you have not gotten yours yet, order it today.  Extremely limited quantities available, it will not be reproduced in this format again.  New productions will be in CD or downloadable format. 

Remember we have Meditations specifically designed to enhance all areas of your life.  A new year has begun; now is the time to make a difference- begin today. 

Visit the OurBestIdea.com webshop:
http://ourbestidea.com/ModShop/ShowCategory/
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Quotes to Ponder

Good friends are like stars, you don't always see them, but you know they are there. --Anon.

Use your imagination not to scare yourself to death, but to inspire yourself to life! --Adele Brookman

An effort made for the happiness of others lifts us above ourselves.
    --Lydia Child, (1802-80) Writer
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OurBestIdea.com Membership

Look for enhancements to the membership benefits this year.  They will be expanded and will continue to give you the inside edge to get more to use in designing the life you love to live!
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A Story for Inspiration

What goes around, comes around

He almost didn't see the old lady, stranded on the side of the road, but even in the dim light of day, he could see she needed help. So he pulled up in front of her Mercedes and got out. His Pontiac was still sputtering when he approached her.
 
Even with the smile on his face, she was worried.
No one had stopped to help for the last hour or so. . .
Was he going to hurt her? He didn't look safe; he looked poor and hungry.
 
He could see that she was frightened, standing out there in the cold. He knew how she felt. It was that chill which only fear can put in you.
 
He said, "I'm here to help you, ma'am. Why don't you wait in the car where it's warm? By the way, my name is Bryan Anderson."
 
Well, all she had was a flat tire, but for an old lady, that was bad enough. Bryan crawled under the car looking for a place to put the jack, skinning his knuckles a time or two. Soon he was able to change the tire. But he had to get dirty and his hands hurt.
 
As he was tightening up the lug nuts, she rolled down the window and began to talk to him. She told him that she was from St. Louis and was only just passing through. She couldn't thank him enough for coming to her aid.

Bryan just smiled as he closed her trunk. The lady asked how much she owed him. Any amount would have been all right with her. She already imagined all the awful things that could have happened had he not stopped. Bryan never thought twice about being paid. This was not a job to him. This was helping someone in need, and God knows there were plenty who had given him a hand in the past. He had lived his whole life that way, and it never occurred to him to act any other way.
 
He told her that if she really wanted to pay him back, the next time she saw someone who needed help, she could give that person the assistance they needed, and Bryan added, "And think of me."
 
He waited until she started her car and drove off. It had been a cold and depressing day, but he felt good as he headed for home, disappearing into the twilight.
 
A few miles down the road the lady saw a small cafe. She went in to grab a bite to eat, and take the chill off before she made the last leg of her trip home. It was a dingy looking restaurant. Outside were two old gas pumps. The whole scene was unfamiliar to her. The waitress came over and brought a clean towel to wipe her wet hair.  She had a sweet smile, one that even being on her feet for the whole day couldn't erase. The lady noticed the waitress was nearly eight months pregnant, but she never let the strain and aches change her attitude.  The old lady wondered how someone who had so little could be so giving to a stranger. Then she remembered Bryan.
 
After the lady finished her meal, she paid with a hundred dollar bill. The waitress quickly went to get change for her hundred dollar bill, but the old lady had slipped right out the door. She was gone by the time the waitress came back. The waitress wondered where the lady could be. Then she noticed something written on the napkin. There were tears in her eyes when she read what the lady wrote: "You don't owe me anything. I have been there too. Somebody once helped me out, the way I'm helping you. If you really want to pay me back, here is what you do: Do not let this chain of love end with you."

Under the napkin were four more $100 bills.
 
Well, there were tables to clear, sugar bowls to fill, and people to serve, but the waitress made it through another day. That night when she got home from work and climbed into bed, she was thinking about the money and what the lady had written. How could the lady have known how much she and her husband needed it? With the baby due next month, it was going to be hard..

She knew how worried her husband was, and as he lay sleeping next to her, she gave him a soft kiss and whispered soft and low, "Everything's gonna be all right. I love you, Bryan Anderson."
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Closing Note

Thank you for inviting us into your home to share with you a force for good. Please contact us with any questions or comments you may have.
Permission is granted to reproduce, copy or distribute this newsletter provided it is shared in its entirety please.

Blessings,

Dale Masker & Halley Elise